Feeling a little confused lately with all my relationships.
I don’t understand how people want me to behave with them. I am me. Obviously I have some splendid qualities and some flaws. If you can’t deal with both of them why do you deal with me at all??
I love people. I am extremely loyal. I share all that I feel and do.
But I also don’t take orders. I do have a mind of my own and will definitely act on it. I can’t take orders or obey you unless I know the order is sensible. I am not submissive don’t try to make me one. Reason with me.
I do have a loud voice and a large structure. I may seem intimidating but trust me I don’t mean to be. I just find it confusing when people love it when I joke around and be jovial but when I get upset or angry or don’t obey they get annoyed. Look I am 21 years old. An adult in almost 90% of the world. Treat me like one.
Like some one said…
If you can’t handle me at my worst better don’t come to me when I am my best.